Saturday, December 27, 2014

Season's Blessings

Even though we aren't home for the holidays and are missing out on family, friends, and all the activities of the season, we are still finding we are very blessed here in Haiti!  Here are some of the festivities we've been having!


We had a special dinner for Madam Ino (who cooks for us) and Emannier (who works in our yard).  I found it very amusing the differences in culture.  Emannier has been showing up for work around 7am - and sometimes before!!  When he started, I had told him he could come around 9am.  The other day I told him he didn't have to come that early (please!!) and he said he didn't know what time it was.  He was doing better the past few days, showing up more around 8 or 8:30, but now it's back to 7....think he's going to get a clock for Christmas :).  Anyway, I had said supper would be at 5pm, and I wondered what time they would both show up....  It was around 5:30 before they came :)  So funny.  I can't figure it out, but I go by the clock so much that I can't fathom a life otherwise....



I had made an american meal for them....hopefully they liked it ok.  The menu was chicken breasts stuffed with cream cheese, bacon, spinach, and Parmesan cheese; seasoned cubed baked potatoes; apples and dip (cream cheese and brown sugar - yum!); sweet and sour green beans; and finished with fruit pie and whipped cream.  I told David I'm pretty sure it was a gastronomic nightmare for them....since they are probably used to pretty much beans and rice, chicken, and everything fried that you can imagine.  All the cheese was probably crazy to them, but what can I say?? It was an american meal :)  I was kind of bummed because I didn't know spinach out of a can is TERRIBLE, and it totally killed the flavor of the otherwise most awesome recipe out there....but oh well....better luck next time.  We had an enjoyable meal with quiet Christmas music playing in the background.....




The next day was my birthday, and I got surprised by so many emails of birthday wishes (thanks Rhonda for spreading the word! :) ).  David made breakfast of crepes with nutella and berries from the pie ;)  (Why is this post centered around food?  Any ideas :) ?)



The day was pretty normal, then I walked Orrin up to Sheila's house where he was going to be babysat for the supper hour.  I just really wanted a nice quiet birthday supper :)  She gave me a small brick of feta cheese for my birthday....a treat to go on the salad for supper!  Crazy how the smallest things are exciting down here....feta is quite un-findable here.  When I got back home, David had supper cooked.  It was better than going to a restaurant ;)  Ribeyes we had brought down with us when we came, salad (with feta and Olive Garden dressing!), pineapple, green beans, and served with a Shirley Temple (sprite with grenadine).  It was lovely to have some time by ourselves without a high-maintenance, energetic, won't-stay-on-his-chair 2 year old!  We walked back up to get Orrin after supper.  Mail had come that day (from Agape), so we opened the packages we had gotten in the mail, and that was exciting too :)  All around a nice birthday!!



Wednesday night was the school kids' Christmas program.  They did a play about the stories behind different Christmas hymns.  It was pulled off very well (as usual), and then at the end, some of the men played guitar with the song Silent Night, as this was how it was supposedly first performed.  The kids did a great job, and we really enjoyed it!


Saturday we woke up to a really awesome morning...it felt like spring!  So we took our chairs down to our "patio" to hang out and read a while.  Orrin got to run around, push his dump truck, climb over rock walls, and in general do what a young boy should be doing!!  Later, Madam Ino came by bringing our market items, and also chickens for us!  We had asked her to buy two chickens for eggs, and she came back with them plus a rooster :(  David had built a chicken coop this summer, made with tin and then a "run" outside made out of pallets.  Totally redneck.  Anyway, we put  the chickens in, and one promptly walked right out of the slats between the pallets.  So a little modification really quick and we had our chickens in the coop.  We've gotten two eggs so far, and Orrin is loving going over to check on them all the time :)







I can send him out with a bowl of table scraps, and he toddles out and dumps the food to the chickens.  Makes us both happy :)  The other night someone came to the door asking for money, and we gave him the rooster.  Again, everyone was happy...well, maybe not the rooster.....

Sunday evening we had a supper together with all the other Bonne Fin missionary families.  It would be the last time we all are together.  Eric and Jami and family were going home on furlough for a few weeks, and they are planning to come back the day Daryl and Norma move back home.  After supper, the kids sang the "farewell" song from The Sound of Music and presented Daryl and Norma with their going away gift.

I was supposed to go see Dr Mario (the OB doctor) on Monday, but after waiting 2 hours, I found out he was in surgery.....so we got to go back the next day....and wait another hour and a half :)  Seems to be the name of the game here.  I've learned to take a good book....and NOT bring Orrin!  Dr Mario said the baby is head down and ready to go in two and a half weeks.  (He said to tell the baby not to come early because he's going to be out of town until January 3.  I told him we'd wait :) ).  Lordwilling, it looks like we should hopefully be good to go and no c-section in the future.  Side note just for me to remember someday.....I was sitting in clinic waiting for Dr Mario, and there was this old lady sitting on the bench too.  She was the most round Haitian woman I have seen yet :)  As we were sitting there, she leaned over and told me I shouldn't have my arms crossed over my preggo stomach.  I smiled and uncrossed my arms.  David and I decided she looked like she had the personality of "Queen Bee" and was used to having her many opinions obeyed :)  I didn't argue with her, but I wonder what her reasoning was....  Then a little later, I was talking to a hospital employee, holding my book, phone, and water bottle.  He advised me that I shouldn't put my phone next to my stomach.  Aaaaaahhhhh!!!!  I thought I'd have a few weeks yet before everyone started telling me that I should be wrapping my baby in sweaters, blankets, hats and socks, but I guess they found things I was doing wrong already :-P

Christmas Eve, and Orrin took two naps...yay!  Or maybe he's just getting sick again :(  I made supper while listening to people at church practicing for the Christmas Eve song service that night.  I finally realized I was hearing the same guy sing the same "Noel" song over and over again.  Then, I couldn't stop thinking about it.  I text David and told him I was going to turn into Scrooge if I had to hear that song one more time!!  I turned the fan up on high and tried to play my own Christmas music :)  After supper we went up to the hospital and sang Christmas carols, handed out blankets and prayed with patients.  Orrin went around bumping fists with some patients and saying "Bon swa" (good evening).  That got a lot of smiles.






When we got home, Orrin opened his presents.  We weren't quite ready to start yet, but Orrin pulled the tissue paper out of one of his gifts and saw the semi book inside, and he started going crazy.  "Semi!  Semi!  Semi!"  It was a book "Big Rig" that I had gotten from the library this summer and it was his favorite.  So I had to spoil him and buy it for him for Christmas.  We've been reading nothing else since :)  This summer we were at IKEA and bought Orrin a rug with buildings and roads printed on it.  We had it shipped down on the sea container this fall...how does that compare with overnight shipping from Amazon? :)





Christmas morning we Skyped with my parents, then called in to Forrest Church service.  That afternoon, all the families met at Lee and Desma Klopfenstein's for our Christmas dinner.  Inside it felt all Christmas-y, with a beautifully set table, lots of good food, a whole dessert spread, and christmas lights and music.  Outside, though, it was warm, sunny and breezy.  






The kids (and adults) took turns whacking on a homemade gecko pinata that was nearly impossible to break :)  




The afternoon was filled with visting and playing games, and we Skyped with David's family who was together for their family Christmas.  We were finally able to have empty enough stomachs to eat some chili for supper around 7.  Then some (ahem, smart people) went home, and some others stayed to play instruments and sing.  My Christmas was complete after we sang "Lo How a Rose Ere Blooming" and it was the best I've ever heard it sound.....  The music and singing sounded so beautiful it was hard to leave, but we did around 1030.  So much past our bedtime, we are such old people now :)

The next day we were dragging ourselves around (again, may I say we're pathetic? :) ), tired, and with a slight stomachache.  (I won't even tell how many honey butter dinner rolls I ate on Christmas.......) We are very thankful for the blessings of this holiday, even though it was different from others.  But, I guess it was better than Christmas on the ambulance, which is probably what one of us would have been doing were we home...

Now we are just on the countdown for January 10, (not so patiently) waiting for Baby Zimm to make it's arrival!  Trying to find fun things to do each day to make it pass quicker.   We're pretty much back to normal now...back to laundry and dishes, work, studying and changing diapers....  But let me just say.... anything that is below knee level now, will remain there until a future date when I can see my feet again :)  


MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR!!  LOVE TO ALL!!

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

Contract for a Soul

 When I take my language lesson, the thing I enjoy most is learning about Haitian culture.  There are some things I learn from the book, but other times I just ask our instructor a bunch of questions :)  Do kids not knock on the door before they come into your house??  What kind of toys do they have to play with?  Do people have running water in their houses?  I get a lot of interesting answers....maybe more on that some other time.....

So the other day, we were learning about the lottery in Haiti.  Falens said that a lot of people play the lottery, spending very little money to a lot of money at once.  They think they'll get rich, but it usually is a waste of money.  (Sounds the same as in the States!!)  Then he went on to explain about the numbers in the lottery system, and how sometimes if a person has a dream about an animal, they will find the number that animal represents and play that number in the lottery.  

Sometimes people will also go to the witch doctors to get winning lottery numbers.  The person will be able to win the lottery and make a lot of money, the problem is, they have to "sell their soul."  He explained how the person will make a contract with the witch doctor that they will win the lottery, but then they will die in a certain number of years.  Or in other cases, some may "sell" another person....their wife, someone they know....and after that period of time, that person will die.  "But," Falens said, "They can't make a contract for me, because I am a Christian, and the witch doctor can't have me."  Jesus is still stronger than the Devil!

It was crazy to hear him talk about this really happening, but he said Haitian culture is so full of voodoo.  And I got to thinking that really, we all make a contract for our soul, whether with God or with the Devil.  It may not be as stark as going to the witch doctor and selling your soul for a winning lottery number, but people all over the world do things in exchange for their soul all the time!


Thankfully, God also lets us make a "contract" with Him!  A few months ago, the pastor in church announced that the next weekend there was going to be baptisms of 15 people!  We were all excited to experience a Haitian baptism, so we got up early the next Sunday morning, and drove down to the river....



The line of people going to be baptized...dressed in white and black.



And everyone else following behind!




It was a beautiful day out, and it felt like we were back in Jesus' time when John the Baptist would baptize in the river!  The church members sang songs on the bank as the people would one by one go into the river to be baptized.  The pastor would talk with them and pray, and then they were baptized.  There were even a few little old ladies that were baptized that day!  It was really a neat experience and we are so glad we went!



"Then said Jesus unto his disciples, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.  For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.  For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?" 
Matthew 16:24-26

Saturday, December 13, 2014

First Aid Class


A few weeks ago, David and I went to Cayes to teach a medical emergency first aid class to the MEBSH Construction group.  (Ok, David's the teacher....I was just the model for practice :) )  



This group takes long trips out into very remote areas of Haiti to build roofs for schools and churches.  In the event of an emergency, they have to figure out how to treat the injury, stabilize the patient, figure out what medical treatment facility options are available, and get the person there.  We went to refresh them on the basics of how to take care of a person who becomes sick or injured on a team.  We talked about heat emergencies, wound care, fractures, diabetic emergencies, allergic reactions....all sorts of stuff.  We did some hands-on practice too, teaching backboarding, blood pressures, how to use the AED, etc.  It was really fun for us to spend a few hours back in the emergency medicine mode....miss it so much!



David demonstrating the use of a c-collar and backboard with Brent.



We enjoyed spending the day with the construction group.  It was really fun!