Sunday, September 27, 2015

A Big Boy's Birthday!

Orrin turned 3 on Sept 21st.  We had lots of fun celebrating!  Orrin liked his dump truck cake and had fun playing in it after we ate :)  He also got a dump truck book that is his new favorite.  Over the past 6 weeks or so, we've been telling him that his diapers are going to disappear when he turns 3.  He would tell everyone who would listen, "I'm 2.  When I have my birthday, I'm going to be 3 years old.  My diapers are going bye-bye on my birthday."  It was pretty comical.  The morning of his birthday, he raced over to his dresser.  "My diapers went away!" :) We also went swimming at a pool for his birthday, which he's been talking about for months.  He's a pretty spoiled little guy :)  Never would have thought I'd have a pool party in the Caribbean for my kids THIRD birthday!!!















Monday, September 14, 2015

Woohoo!


1 Book.  10 months for David.  11 months for me.  25 lessons.  244 pages.  Aprox 5,000 new words.  

Innumerable days we wanted to quit.

Finished.

Finally.


David sent out this picture when he finished his last lesson in the book :)  When asked if he was fluent now, he responded: "Yes, I read the last word in the book and suddenly started thinking in Creole, had a long conversation using words I'd never heard!  Or not."  This pretty much sums it up :)

One day after a particularly challenging lesson, I decided to write out the experience to remember it someday.  Here's my summary:

3:03 pm – Falens shows up for our Creole lesson.

3:03 pm – Cassia wakes up.  She is supposed to sleep until 3:30.  I know I need to feed her to keep her on schedule but I need to start my lesson.  So lets go.

3:04 pm – I get Falens a drink and sit on the couch, holding Cassia on my lap.

3:05 pm – Falens prays to open our lesson.  Cassia starts to eat my book.  Orrin comes over and messes with my book too.

3:08 pm – I put Cassia down on the floor to play and we start the lesson again.
Orrin jumps on the couch and crawls behind my head.  I tell him to stop and read his books on the couch.  He wants snacks for putting his other books away.  I bring him two snacks.

3:15 pm – Orrin pulls out a sticker book and rips out two pages.  I pull stickers out and hand them to him to put on the pages as I am reading Creole lesson.  Someone calls “Madam David” from outside and knocks on the door.  I get up and answer the door.  Come back and re-start lesson.

3:24 pm – Orrin pulls out the cushion from behind Cassia as she is sitting on the floor.  I tell him no.  He gets a spank in his room.  I come back and start again.

3:31 pm – Orrin comes back and jumps on the couch.  I say you can read your books on the couch or do Blanket Time.  We get the blanket, toys, and snacks.  He is  bawling because I put the blanket in the wrong spot and he doesn’t want fruit snacks.

3:33 pm – I get up from my lesson again and get him a different snack.  I take the fruit snacks and eat them.  He screams because he wants his fruit snacks.  I give him the fruit snacks to make him be quiet and then go back to the couch to ask a few questions about the words I hadn’t understood.


3:37 pm – Cassia has gotten on her belly and moved to the corner of the rug.  She is eating the tag on the underside of the rug.  Falens asks if she should be eating it since it’s dirty.  So I get up and put her in a sitting position.  She screams bloody murder and huge tears roll down her face.  I pick her up.  She’s trying to eat my shirt.  I go get a blanket and attempt to nurse.  I ask Falens to read the next part since she won’t nurse if I’m talking.  He says he needs to hear me read.  Nursing doesn’t work, so we give up and I close my book.  Cassia is red-faced and screaming.  I tell Falens this isn’t working today.  We talk a little and then he gets up to go.  It’s 3:47.  We read two pages.  When will I learn Creole?  Certainly not during my lesson times.



From here on, we'll take a break from books and continue with a lesson a week where we have conversations in Creole to help with comprehension, listening, and vocab.  Usually unstructured conversation lessons go better with the kiddos.

Sometimes things go good during conversations, and you feel like you may actually be getting it.  Then other days you're totally lost.  And then sometimes people throw in French words when they're speaking...and that totally throws me for a loop!  Two Sundays ago, it seemed like we understood most of the sermon without using the translator.  Then last Sunday I didn't get a thing.  I asked Falens and he said the pastor spoke mostly in French that sermon.  Sigh.  Guess we'll have to learn French when we're fluent in Creole ;)

Saturday, September 12, 2015

Saying Bye is Hard To Do

This week we said bye to Eric and Jami and family as they finished their term of service at the hospital and moved back to the States.  We met Eric on our first week long trip to the Hospital in 2011, and we were really excited when we heard they moved down to Haiti after that!  So when we felt called to Haiti, we contacted them with a few questions and so it seemed like they were with us through all of our journey...the application process, welcoming us to Haiti and helping us settle in and figure things out here, having friends for Orrin (and then Cassia), making us lots of food during the months of pregnancy sickness, being there during L&D of Cassia (well, Jami anyway, not the whole family :)), watching our kiddos a lot, going to visit patients at the hospital together every week, and just in general being good friends that we liked being with!  We are very thankful for the year and a half we got to spend together here.  I know they have lots of people and family excited to be able to see them more often, and I know they're excited too!  But there's always tough days in a transition time, and I'm sure they'll have those days.  So please pray for them as they're embarking on the next phase of their journey and serving God wherever they are!!


The other night we tried to get a picture of our kids together....I thought this one was pretty realistic...and cute :)



At this same time when we're missing this family and our daily interactions, we look forward to meeting and welcoming a new face to our "community".  This weekend, Lordwilling, we hope to meet Leah.  She is coming to help teach English school.  Please pray for her too in her transition, and that she will feel welcomed and loved!

We're thankful for all the friends and "family" God has given us down here in Haiti....be they Haitian or American or German or whoever might come!  We know saying goodbyes are part of our life right now; whenever we come here we have to say goodbye to our families, and when people leave here, we have to say goodbye to them.  Someday too, it will be our time to say goodbye to all our loved ones here in Haiti.  Through the midst of all the goodbyes in our lives, it's good to know that Heaven waits for those who follow Jesus, and that we have the promise of meeting again where we never say goodbye!