Sunday, July 31, 2016

Role Transitions

There's been a lot of change around here in the past few months in our little English-speaking circle :)  This spring we said goodbyes to Kirk (medical department intern) and Leah (teacher at the missionary kids' school).  We've been missing their cheerfulness and hard work around here!

Then this past weekend, we said goodbye to Lee and Desma and Chloe, as their time in Haiti came to a close.  Lee's position was Medical Director, Desma was a teacher of the MK's school, and also did a lot of English classes at the local schools.  And Chloe was a really great friend and babysitter to our family.  My heart hurts when I think that she won't just come walking down our hill anymore to hang out with us, push the kids on the swings, exclaim over all the cute things Cass does, give me a hand when I so need it to get through, bake cookies with Orrin, spend the night, or share what's going on in her world right now.



They headed back to the States on Saturday, along with Lucas and Raya's family who was here for three weeks (we had such a great time with them!!), and Sheila who is going on furlough,  but will also be changing responsibilities when she comes back this fall.  With all the leaving, it has been a little concerning about who will fill those roles.  We are really thankful to have Dr Patty come back down long-term to help out on the medical side, and Bob and Sue coming down this fall to teach school!  The past few weeks have been a scramble of activity to try to get all these transitions done, and job duties sorted out.  Unfortunately, all the extra "stuff" going on with the recent problems took away a lot of time that otherwise could have been spent on transitions, but that's just the way it is.

So we go ahead, with our job duties expanded to encompass the things left behind.  For David, that means adding ordering medical supplies, managing campus housing (dorms for nurses, and other staff housing), and other random items to an already long list.  For me, it doesn't look like too much, just coordinating some supplies for the containers, and food distribution to local charities.

Please pray for those who step into new roles, for those moving on as they will have a time of loss and transition too, and for those who the Lord is calling or will call here in the future.  There's lots of "stuff" to do, and may we remember that even with all those things, that being a light for Christ is the most important of all, no matter where we are.

Monday, July 25, 2016

Cassia's 18 Month Stats

It seems weird to do a "normal" post...about our little life, in the midst of all this turmoil.  But that's how my life seems right now.  Normal until the craziness hits.  Or normal with an underlying stress, knowing that things can change in an instant.  But Cassia will only be 18 months for a month, so now is the time.  I had done this same post for Orrin at this age, and it was really fun to look back on and see what things they're doing the same and how their personalities show through even at this young age.




Cassia's Motto: Smile broadly while throwing caution to the wind.

Height: 30 inches
Weight: 18 lbs
4th percentile in weight, 5th percentile in height
Teeth: 8 - four front and four molars :-P

Favorite things to do:
Bathe in the sink or a bucket
Be outside
Ride the 4 wheeler
Be carried around
Put on shoes - anyone's shoes!
Hide in the toy cabinet
Pull Orrin's hair
Put pens and pencils in and out of a cup

Sleep:
nap - Pretty much changed over to one nap a day.
bedtime - 7-7:30pm

Tricks:
Dances whenever there's music
Discovering what a spoon is used for
Helps with supper in the kitchen when the coast is clear
Puts herself to sleep - no bottle!
Pretends to want to play with a phone and then hurls it on the floor
Helps put laundry in the machine and in the basket
Lures mom in with puckery kissy lips and then spits out her food

Favorite foods:
Anything that's junk
Peanut Butter
Oreos
Mac n cheese
Bread
Beans
Milk
Mangos



Favorite books:
Anything that can be put in her mouth and eaten

Life experiences:
Born with dual citizenship
Has stamps in her passport
A black eye and chipped tooth after hurling herself headlong over the arm of the couch
Having her carseat flip over in the vehicle when it became un-bungie-corded

Words:
Mama
Dada
Ball
Chee (chicken)
Hot!
Two Shoes
Buh (Orrin/Brother)
Hi
Bebe (baby)
Moooo
Booo!
Taint ou (thank you)
Uh oh!
Tinty (stinky)
Owl
Juice
Baaa
All Done
Apple
Bon Jou
Wuv ou (love you)
Cookie (clicks her tongue - so cute!)

Signs:
Please
Food
Drink
More
Stars
Thank you
Bye-bye
Book
Flower
Pig
Duck



Saturday, July 23, 2016

Sending Messages

It sounded like a basketball bouncing somewhere down the path.  Thump, thump, thump.  Then the tree fell.  This would have been nothing extraordinary, but that morning it made me sit upright in bed.  "They're cutting down trees to block the road."  At 4:30, we had received a text that there was a roadblock starting outside the front gate of the Hospital.  And now this was more.  We went out in the yard, and saw the fallen tree.  They cut more down, then hopped on their motorcycles and headed back up the mountain.  When they finished, there were four roadblocks and the hospital gate was chained shut.





Lately there have been two meetings postponed (not by the Hospital).  It seems like this has been perceived as a lack of interest in the problem and they were sending a message that they still want electricity.

The footpath that goes by our house was full of traffic all day, with people, patients, and motorcycles trying to get from the main road to the hospital campus the back way.  I watched a man on crutches make his way up the mountain to get to the hospital.  Amazingly, the clinic was fairly full of patients coming to their appointments, but the parking lot was starkly empty.

After supper, we heard more chopping.  We were so relieved to see that this time it was a group of men chopping up the trees and taking them away.  There were varying reports as to who they were...guys hired by bus drivers so they could get through to deliver their loads, or a group from a community down the mountain who had said they would come open the road should this happen again.  Either way, we were glad.




The hospital gates remained chained closed for the night, as we decided not to push it.  The guards had tools to cut the chain if needed, and in the morning they did so with no repercussions.  Yesterday and today everything has remained open.

There are so many things that go through our minds.  What is the message we want to communicate?  How do we do it?  We want to communicate that we want to listen, talk, and be loving, kind and reasonable, but that this is not acceptable and is destructive.  It is destructive to the Hospital, to the patients, and to their own citizens who need to use the roads in their daily lives and businesses.

Some specific prayer requests we have:

- For us to send good, Christ-like messages
- For the "group" - that they can see how destructive this is, and that their hearts can be softened.
- For MEBSH as they seek to help with the problem.
- For a solution to be found that is good for all, because we know God can work it all out for good.

Thursday, July 14, 2016

Postponed

Just a quick update to say that the meeting that was to happen yesterday was postponed.  The community is waiting for a representative from the Haitian electrical company to come and do an analysis of the area before proceeding.  There is still ongoing communications between the Hospital and MEBSH during this time of waiting.  At this point, life is proceeding as "normal," just at a little higher stress level than usual.  Leaning on God and your prayers.

Monday, July 11, 2016

Things I Love About Haiti

The world is so diverse!  Wherever we go, we find things we love and things that we don't so much :)  But here are some of the things we love about where we find ourselves now...

The People.  Yes, people are people everywhere.  After making headway in cracking the language code, and observing how they live their lives, we find we aren't so much different after all.  Their wants, desires, stresses, work, families, and households are much like ours....there are some obvious differences, a lot due to life circumstances, but really much is the same.  The people here are just as much made in God's image as anyone else in the world.  And after all, the people are what we came here for.

The Weather.  Wow.  This place is really about the perfect temperature year round.  In the "winter" it's a beautiful mid-70's, and in the summer it hits up around mid-high 80's.  In the summer we get some really warm ones, and it's sticky, but it's really do-able, even without AC.  We're super spoiled here on our mountain too, even more so than lots of other parts of Haiti.  If you head down Les Cayes in the valley, it is generally always 10 degrees hotter than here in Bonne Fin.  You know the temperature is great when people say they say they can't go out in the rain...to them it's like a blizzard!

The. Beaches. Are. Exquisite.  Warm water (so much warmer than Florida), and there's hardly ever anyone else around.  It is the perfect place to go relax for an afternoon when your stress meter is hitting the red.  The kids love to splash around in the water as much as they love "swimming" in the sand.  I think they would live at the beach if they could.










Visuals of the Word.  It seems like we step back in time a little when we come here.  There are so many things now that I can picture when I read the Bible....the dusty feet after walking on rocky roads, the women carrying water on their heads, the fishermen in their boats.


The Herds of Goats.  For some reason, there is something that draws me to those goats and their herders.  As we come up the mountain in the evening, you invariably pass several men and their herds, I assume heading home after the day of grazing and watering.  It seems like a peaceful sort of life.



The Beauty.  This island of mountains and oceans and palm trees and flowers and hidden waterfalls is so much more beautiful than I expected.  Sometimes you find that everything fits together to make a magnificent picture that just about makes your heart ache for the beauty of it.  One of my favorite things to see are the clouds as they pass over the sun - casting great shadows on the mountains, bringing out the deep green of the trees, making the scene rich and colorful.






The New Experiences.  We love making fun discoveries!  It may be a new food, a breathtaking view, different restaurant, or a fun experience.  Discovering the person who makes and sells delicious coated peanuts, or the stand by the side of the road that sells bonbon siwo (translated: syrup cake, kind of like gingerbread).  For David's birthday, we went to Cayes to do some errands, ate at a wonderful Bistro, and then stopped by a "garden" where they grow and sell flowers and plants and trees.  It was so much more than expected.  It was quiet, peaceful, beautiful, and there was so much work that had gone into it.  Every little discovery like that is so exciting!







The other night we went on a "date" out by the reservoir to stargaze.  The ridge we sit on overlooks a great valley with another mountain range on the other side.  We thought our stargazing was going to be ruined when the clouds started moving in, but it was like God was putting on a show for just us.  On top of the far mountain range, a group of cumulus clouds gathered, and lightning lit them up from behind and inside.  It lasted an hour, right there in front of us.  We were bummed that we were going to be missing fireworks for the 4th of July, but we thought that this was a pretty awesome exchange.



The Fresh Produce.  Every Saturday, we get a fridge full of fresh market produce.  Cabbage, carrots, potatoes, green and hot peppers, onions, pineapple, grapefruit, bananas, avocados....on and on.  It is cool to think of the local farmers that bring their produce to the local market to sell.  And if you go into town to the grocery store, sometimes you can find other exciting things like broccoli, cucumbers, apples, lettuce and even grapes!



The Flowers.  Growing things here is crazy.  You whack off a part of a flower or tree that you want, stick it in the ground, water it a few times, and viola! it grows!  We also have fruit vines growing in our yard  that we never planted.  One fall, they just appeared and started producing loads of beautiful juice-making grenadia fruit.  And how many times in the states do you get a flower petal strewn pathway to walk on on your way to church?  Here, the beautiful Flamboyant tree drops it's beautiful red leaves and carpets our path.



The Black Skin.  Black is beautiful, right?  We feel really pasty white and blemish-y in comparison :)  But it's kind of funny.  Human nature is such that we're never satisfied with what we have.  So many times people say to me that they're ugly because they're black.  And I tell them that white people want to be darker!  I guess we need to tell God thanks for the way He made us and yet appreciate the differences.


Singing and worship.  The Haitian culture is such that they put everything into their singing.  It's a different style than what we grew up with and are "used to" but we try to embrace it as much as we can.  Singing on your own or in groups is a big part of their church service, and no one seems to be afraid of going up and making a joyful noise :).  Employees can be found singing when they're working, and I've had patients in the OR who sang hymns when they were scared or in pain.  


Si Dye Vle.  Translated, it means "If God wants" or in our lingo "Lordwilling".  In the States it is rare to hear this, but that is totally not the case here.  Everyone tags it onto anything they talk about in the future.  "See you tomorrow, si Dye vle." or "I will take the medicine tomorrow, si Dye vle."  Unfortunately, I kind of think it's more of a cultural thing than an actual belief for some people, but I know there are those who truly are saying it in the way it is meant.


The Rice and Beans.  Ok, I could do a whole blog post on rice and beans. Maybe I will sometime.  It's amazing the difference of flavors that you can get from essentially the same dish.  We eat them several times a week, and really never get tired of them.  Totally going to have to figure out how to cook them before we move back!


The Multilingual-ness.  In America, we think everyone speaks English.  That everyone should speak English.  We think it's really the only language out there.  All the other ones are just play languages.  Having someone truly bilingual in the States is pretty rare unless they recently immigrated or have good reason to be.  Here in Haiti, most everyone is at least bi-lingual.  Most schools teach Creole and French.  Creole is an off-shoot of French, an "easier" version, so it is the obvious choice for a second language.  French is also the medical/business language since most of the textbooks are in French (so textbooks don't have to be written or translated into Creole).  So most kids who get out of school speak both languages.  Then a lot of these people learn English because they know it's also a "leg up" in life.  And then some even go on and learn Spanish (the DR next door speaks Spanish and Cuba speaks their variety of Spanish too).  I just think it's pretty impressive that people can be multi-lingual...I have a new appreciation for how hard it is to be even "decent" in a second language, let alone a third or fourth.  As much as I think this is cool, it is sometimes a source of frustration for us, when we are still learning language #2 (Creole) and people start talking to us, writing letters to us, or reading the Bible in French.


The Smell of Diesel.  Especially in the cities like Port au Prince or Cayes, the air is heavy with the smell of diesel.  I know I'm weird, but I love it.  Even in the states sometimes I catch a whiff of diesel, and it takes me right back to those hot, crowded streets, full of old trucks spewing emissions into the air.



Even though this post has been focused on the positives, I know that a lot of people are probably wondering about our situation at the hospital right now.  So just a brief update.  Right now, things are calm.  Other than the first week, we have had no roadblocks.  That was used as an attention-getter to make a point.  Now we are in the talking phase.  As I had posted last time, this week has some critical dates.  On Wednesday the 13th, there will be a meeting that will include the MEBSH leadership, Hospital Lumiere administration, government officials, and representatives from the community.  Please pray for all those involved, and that a positive outcome can come from this for all sides.

Saturday, July 2, 2016

Waiting for a Mighty Working

There's not much new to report around here, thankfully!!  We were all invited to be involved in a HL Board conference call this week.  The board was given details of what is going on in hopes that they can understand better the situation and give advise.  It was a really good call, and the communication was helpful to all I hope.  One of the things discussed was of how to make this known and garner more prayer support.  Some of the Brothers were given some tasks of ways to spread the word, and just a day or two later, I have seen some of their work come out in an email from AC Harvest Call, and also a Facebook post.  We are very thankful for the overwhelming amount of support that is being given.

Another meeting was held this week with the MEBSH administration.  MEBSH is the Haitian church organization that actually owns the Hospital and grounds.  We are seeking their increased and continued involvement in this problem, and hope that they can provide some necessary and missing pieces of this...culture, authority, history in the community, etc.  Please be prayerful for them as they seek to come help us.

Some of the "group" that started all this have been communicating with our administration.  There is one or two specifically that has been talking with David and seems to be able to understand where we're coming from on this.  They have said that the group is taking back a few of the things that they were wanting the hospital to do (some of their "terms") and that we don't have to worry about them hurting us.

There is a meeting set with the community again on July 13th.  David also heard that there is a rumor going around that we will start giving power back on the 15th.  This is hard because it sometimes doesn't matter what the truth is.  All that matters is what is truth in their minds.  In their minds they think that we promised something.  So....here are a few dates to pray for in advance and cover with prayer when they come.  Hopefully we can make some headway clearing up the rumors before then too.  Hopefully we can continue to make progress in relationships.

And while we work, we wait.  We wait for God to show His power.  We wait for God to work a mighty work here.  We wait on the Lord and the power of His strength.  We wait for his defeat of the Evil One.

This week there have been a few scriptures shared with me that I keep going back to.

Really the whole chapter 4 of Second Corinthians is fitting, but here are verses 7-9 "But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us.  We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed; we are perplexed, but not in despair; Persecuted, but not forsaken; cast down, but not destroyed;"

2 Samuel 22:4-7.  "I will call on the LORD, who is worthy to be praised: so shall I be saved from mine enemies.  When the waves of death compassed me, the floods of ungodly men made me afraid; The sorrows of hell compassed me about; the snares of death prevented me; In my distress I called upon the LORD, and cried to my God: and he did hear my voice out of his temple, and my cry did enter into his ears."